Before you spend money you should stay calm and think if you really need to spend money on some items-
I just read an old short story that I liked-from a spammer selling artwork.-haha-
"Many years ago, women were advised to go get a cool drink, sit down, and think about the purchase if it were twenty dollars or more. Sometimes that 15-minute refreshment break prevented them from spending as much. They thought about getting the item somewhere at a great discount, or having it made for them, or substituting it with something they already had. If, after thinking about it, you still think you need it, then you can go ahead. This method usually works in helping homemakers to be wise in their spending."